Most parents have seen this happen. As the communion tray passed by, a little one in a stage-whisper says: “Mom, can I have some juice too?” Of course, you say, “No,” but most parents wisely respond, “Not yet.” Children could eat crackers and juice, but they would not be partaking of the body and blood of the Lord. The meaning would be lost on them (1 Corinthians 11:23-28).
“No, you can’t” and “Not yet” are quite different responses. Sometimes it is important to wait. Delay is not denial. Waiting for the right time is neither idle nor empty. Anticipation is the best preparation for the moment of fulfillment. I remember the first time I took communion. I was twelve years old, and it was the Sunday after I was baptized. What a very special moment that was!
Delayed gratification is not popular in our culture, but there are times when it is important. Waiting to make a purchase until one saves enough money is better than buying on credit and paying interest (Proverbs 21:20). Waiting till marriage for sexual fulfillment avoids many problems and pleases God (Hebrews 13:4).
Humans are always in a hurry. God, I have noticed, allows nature to take its course. It doesn't hurt for children to observe baptisms and communion, and to form the idea that one day, they too will grow to participate in these grownup commitments.
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