ATTITUDE
The 92-year-old, petite, well-poised
and proud lady, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o'clock,
with her hair fashionably coifed and makeup perfectly applied, even
though she is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today. Her
husband of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary.
After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, she smiled sweetly when told her room was ready.
As she maneuvered her walker to the elevator, I
provided a visual description of her tiny room, including the eyelet
sheets that had been hung on her window. "I love it," she stated with
the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just
been presented with a new puppy.
"Mrs. Jones, you haven't seen the room .... just
wait." "That doesn't have anything to do with it," she replied.
"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my
room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is
arranged ... it's how I arrange my mind.
I already decided to love it ... "It's a decision
I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice; I can spend the
day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body
that no longer work, or get out of bed and be
thankful for the ones that do. Each day is a gift, and as long as my
eyes open I'll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I've
stored away ... just for this time in my life.
Old age is like a bank account ... you withdraw
from what you've put in .. So, my advice to you would be to deposit a
lot of happiness in the bank account of memories
Thank you for your part in filling my Memory bank. I am still depositing.
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Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.
No one can go back and make a brand new start.
Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.
God didn't promise days without pain, laughter
without sorrow, sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the
day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way.
Disappointments are like road bumps, they slow you down a bit but you enjoy the smooth road afterwards.
Don't stay on the bumps too long. Move on!
When you feel down because you didn't get what
you want, just sit tight and be happy, because God has thought of
something better to give you.
When something happens to you, good or bad, consider what it means.
There's a purpose to life's events, to teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard.
You can't make someone love you, all you can do
is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize
your worth.
It's better to lose your pride to the one you love, than to lose the one you love because of pride.
We spend too much time looking for the right
person to love or finding fault with those we already love, when instead
we should be perfecting the love we give.
Never abandon an old friend. You will never find
one who can take his place. Friendship is like wine, it gets better as
it grows older.
May today there be peace within you. May you
trust God that you are exactly where you are meant to be. "I believe
that friends are quiet angels who lift us to our feet when our wings
have trouble remembering how to fly."
-- Author Unknown